Six Important Steps to Take in Order to Prepare High School Students for College
Congratulations! You have a student in high school and you are approaching the end of a journey! You want your students high school years to end well and, in order to do that, you need to be aware of available options. Even if your student does not plan to go to college, that could change, so it is better to be prepared for college, and not go — rather than to not plan for college and then find your student has changed his mind! Do not wait until the spring semester of the senior year to make post-high school plans (especially if your student will attend college). Waiting too long can cause stress, failed plans, and a loss of scholarship offers.
Step one in planning for the high school years is to choose which subjects are needed to prepare your student best for life after high school. An article that discusses many options along with advice on how to choose what subjects to include can be found here. The subjects you include will be influenced by what you discover in step two, so keep that in mind as you plan.
Step two is to help your students determine their talents, giftedness, and passion. Begin
having your students participate in opportunities that will help them figure out if they, in fact, love a particular interest or, as is often the case, are not as enamored once they gain experience. For instance, if your child is interested in journalism, find a journalist that they shadow or intern with in order to see firsthand what all is involved with this career. If your student knows ahead of time (before college) what he wants to do career-wise, it will help you plan the high school years in such a way that they gain experience before heading to college. If your student has no clue, then taking career assessment tests may be helpful. The Career Services director at Bryan recently conducted a workshop on how to help students discover their interests. A summary of his workshop is found here.
Step three is to make plans for additional opportunities during the high school years including, but not limited to, conferences, programs, camps, ministry opportunities, internships, and community service. I put together a free e resource for planning the high school years and it includes a time line of events that you may want to consider including in your students’ plans. Feel free to download that resource here. We had our children attend numerous conferences (many were free) as well as debates (so that they would be challenged to think deeply about issues that matter), pregnancy center banquets (to hear the speaker), campaigns, and more. They also began working at summer camps when they were 12. We made sure our children joined us when we volunteered for community service or ministry related projects. As a result, our children are very quick to respond to needs without being asked. One year, when a hurricane hit Florida, several of our children spent days with the Salvation Army providing meals for the evacuees. Some programs and camps may seem quite costly, but we found that it was worth sacrificing (or working harder to earn the money required) for certain programs. In several instances I was able to barter services for the required fees (cooked at a camp, taught classes, babysat, etc.). There are numerous opportunities that will advance your child’s interest whether it be music, theater, politics, business, or almost anything else! Some opportunities will be easier to find
than others. Ask for referrals from your friends. When my daughter wanted to gain experience as a videographer I asked our homeschool support group for suggestions and my daughter ended up with two internships, both of which provided invaluable experience in her field. To read more about the varied paths my nine children have taken since high school, go here.
Step four involves narrowing down your college choices to 2 or 3 schools. Look for colleges that have majors that interest your students. Yes, I know, this may change. It often does, but start out with current interests. Personally, it is important to my husband and me that our children attend a college that teaches classes from a biblical worldview when possible. For this reason several of our students attended Bryan College (which happens to be where I am the Homeschool Specialist). Of course it would make sense that I highly recommend Bryan College if we have the major your student needs. Begin your search by looking on-line and by asking for referrals from friends. Visit the colleges of choice in person when possible. Most colleges have specific visit days, but many encourage you to visit at any time that is convenient to you. Visiting while classes are in session is the best time to visit because if your students are allowed to sit in on classes, they will gain a first-hand experience. If you are going to be in the area of a college of interest at a time when classes are not in session, it is still worth scheduling a visit so that you can tour the campus and talk to admissions and financial aid counselors. If your student is a senior then check with the colleges of interest to see if they offer special scholarship events for seniors in high school. Bryan College hosts two scholarship events each year, one per semester. These are for seniors who have been accepted to Bryan College. The events are free and are by invitation according to college exam test scores. Each student attending receives an additional scholarship between $200 and $2,000 based on an academic interview. Students can also participate in an essay contest and one winner receives four years tuition! Additional scholarships are offered for music, theater, martial arts and more. You are not limited to how many colleges your student can apply to and, in fact, it makes sense to apply to your top 2 or 3 choices so that you can better compare apples with apples once the financial packages are awarded. There are times throughout the year when application fees are waived (applying to multiple colleges can get costly) so check with the colleges of interest about this. Colleges often offer incentives for applying (or depositing) that reward the student with free products such as t-shirts, mugs, etc. Plan to attend college fairs that are within driving distance to your home. Do some research to find out about virtual college fairs as they are gaining in popularity. Ken Ham, with Answers in Genesis, has a free college fair every November and each high school student receives a free ticket to the Creation Museum and a chance to win a $500 scholarship. The FPEA, in Florida, hosts a homeschool college fair in November. Many homeschool curriculum fairs include vendors in the exhibit hall who represent colleges. HEAV has a separate college vending area at their annual conference in Richmond, VA, as does the NCHE conference that takes place in Winston-Salem, NC. One more word of advice, find out if a college you are looking at offers something unique to that college. Students who attend Bryan College after high school and graduate with a 3.5 GPA can then earn their Master’s degree tuition free!
Step five is planning financially for the college years. College can be quite expensive, but
there are multiple scholarships and grants that can be awarded or earned. Dual enrolling while in high school is one of the best ways to save money and cut costs. In some states dual enrollment is totally free, but be careful because dual enrollment is not without dangers. I wrote about that here. In Tennessee there is a state grant for DE classes. At Bryan College we offer an out-of-state scholarship of $200 for DE classes which makes a 3 hour credit class cost around $300. That is an amazing price. We offer on-line classes 4 times a year. Bryan College is regionally accredited so our credits often transfer to most colleges. Taking AP classes and CLEP exams is another way to reduce college expenses because it is a much more affordable way to earn credit. Be aware, once again, that not every college accepts every CLEP or AP credit. Once you have narrowed your students’ college choices, then find out their policy regarding transferring credits whether from another college or from CLEP or AP. Academic scholarships are often the highest scholarships awarded and most of the time the amount is determined by the scores earned on a college entrance exam. At some colleges the academic and athletic scholarships stack. If you have a student who is an athlete, planning to attend a college where the athletic and academic scholarships do not stack, if he can receive an equal amount for an academic scholarship, always go with the academic scholarship over the athletic scholarship because athletes can lose a scholarship due to injury or non-renewal based on performance. In addition to making college affordable by taking dual enrollment classes, CLEP and AP tests, and earning scholarships, most colleges offer opportunities on campus such as work study programs and becoming a residential assistant.
Step Six: Going hand-in-hand with Step 5 is this — prepare for the tests. Although I am not a fan of using college exam scores as an indicator of how well a student will do in college, the truth is that most colleges award the highest scholarships according to scores earned. In years past the ACT and the SAT were the primary tests taken by the majority
of students. Now there is a third option, the CLT! Read here to find out more about college testing. Students should seriously prepare for these exams because the higher the scholarship the less out-of-pocket money required! A word of caution if your student plans to apply for independent scholarships — set up a dedicated email account for scholarship entries or your personal email will be bombarded with solicitations.
Feel free to contact me at pat.wesolowski@bryan.edu if you have questions or if you are interested in receiving a list of resources I have created.
Being prepared for life after high school is not that difficult if you have a plan in place to take advantage of opportunities available to your students.

Because I often have parents asking me about accommodations for students with disabilities in college, I organized a workshop led by Bryan College’s Academic Success Center Director and ADA Coordinator, Kristi Strode. What I discovered while attending the workshop is that accommodations are regulated by the Americans with Disabilities Act of 1990/Rehabilitation Act of 1973 – Section 504. There are also other laws that come into play when serving students with disabilities: the Fair Housing Act regarding campus housing needs and FERPA regarding the extremely important issue of confidentiality
If students are not satisfied with the services they receive through Bryan College’s ADA Services, there is a grievance procedure in place. On our campus, an ADA Compliance Committee is charged with weighing any grievances that come forward. Kristi has also developed a manual for compliance with the ADA mandates.
Once a student on campus has met with Kristi and figured out a plan for accommodations, then that student must present the needed accommodations through what is known as a Syllabus Addendum to their professors. Kristi promotes self-advocacy, but she will work with both the students and professors.
Not every child will attend college. Helping your child plan for life after high school should, however, include discussing whether college is the route to take, or not. If college is on your child’s radar, but he/she does not have a clue of what major to choose, that is not uncommon.
Of my nine children, 4 of our 5 sons will graduate college (and the fifth is doing quite well as a builder and knife maker). Of my 4 girls only 1 will graduate college as she is pursuing a nursing career. The other 3 daughters are wives and mothers who either homeschool their children, work from home, and/or work alongside their husbands. One daughter attended Bryan one year and then she met her husband. Another daughter attended a women’s discipleship program in Texas where she met her husband. The third daughter worked at a ministry one summer where she met her husband.
After homeschooling my nine children for more than 32 years, I am finally finished! One of my regrets is not acknowledging the importance of college entrance exams and/or CLEP and AP credit for those heading to college. For years I was convinced that:
There are now 3 college entrance exams: the
When should students begin testing? That depends on the student and on the direction your student is headed. Many students begin taking practice tests as early as 8th or 9th grade. Because the tests are not inexpensive ($49+) most parents wait until the junior year to begin taking official tests. Some schools require a college exam test score for dual enrollment purposes. At Bryan College a student can begin dual enrolling after the sophomore year without a test score (transcript required showing 3.0 GPA or higher), unless they are taking a math class in which case the student would have to provide a college exam math score of ACT 22, SAT 540, or CLT 22.



As the Homeschool Specialist at Bryan College I plan to use this forum as a means to communicate information useful to parents of teens as they prepare their children for life after high school! Let’s talk about the importance of the PSAT!